Rughubar Est. 1883

Est. 1883 · A living family archive

From a single ship to seven generations.

In November 1883, Lowhur and Jeelabia stepped off an indentured ship into Natal — carrying nothing but each other and a name. Today their descendants number 1,786 across four continents. This is where we keep the stories.

1,786
family members
7
generations
143
years of heritage
The First Branches: the seven children of Lowhur and Jeelabia, each founding a major branch of the Rughubar family

Browse the family tree

Explore seven generations as a living, interactive map. Click anyone to read their story, see their lineage, and find how you're related.

Tell stories

Add stories about your parents, grandparents, the relatives who shaped you. Each becomes part of the permanent record.

Share photos

Reunion shots, weddings, milestones — upload to the family gallery. Tag who's in each photo. Build the visual record together.

Plan reunions

Create events, manage RSVPs, post directions. Everyone in the family knows what's coming up and who's coming.

Talk to each other

Message boards organized by topic. Trade memories, ask "who's the kid in this 1972 photo?", coordinate things.

Edit your record

Names get spelled wrong. Branches get forgotten. Submit corrections — they're reviewed by family admins, then everyone sees the fix.

"To know your family is to know your name. To know your name is to know who you came from. To know who you came from is to know who you are."

— A grandmother, somewhere in the family
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How to navigate

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Welcome to the family archive

Everyone in the family can browse the tree. To keep it accurate, every change goes through a quick admin review before it appears live.

The most important thing to know: when you submit a bio edit, photo, or new member, it sits in a pending queue until an admin approves it. Only then does it appear on the tree. If you've submitted something and don't see it yet, that's normal.

Getting started

How do I find a specific person?

Two ways to look someone up:

  • Family Tree tab — use the search bar at the top. Start typing a name and matching members are highlighted on the tree.
  • All Members tab — every member appears as a card. Use the search box and filters to narrow by name, generation, or relationship.

Click any name or card to open their profile.

Who can see this archive?

Only signed-in family members with an approved account can see the tree, photos, videos, stories, or any other content. The site shows a sign-in screen to everyone else — no part of the family information is visible to the public web.

When you request an account, an admin reviews and approves it before you get access. If you've signed up and haven't heard back, it usually means your request is still in the approval queue.

Photos and videos load through short-lived access links that refresh every hour. If you leave a tab open overnight, a quick refresh brings any stale images back.
How do I read what's already in the tree?

Open any member's profile by clicking their name on the tree, or their card on the Members tab. You'll see their bio, photo, location, contact details, stories, and how they connect to other relatives.

To explore the tree visually, use the controls in the top-right of the Family Tree: zoom in/out, expand or collapse branches, and switch between left-to-right and top-down layouts.

If the tree feels overwhelming, start by clicking — it walks you through every tab in under two minutes.

Making changes

How do I request a bio edit?

The bio is the longer life-story paragraph on each member's profile.

  1. Open the member's profile from the Family Tree or All Members tab.
  2. In the profile panel, click Suggest edit.
  3. Fill in the new bio text. You can also update location and contact from the same form.
  4. Add a short reason so the admin knows where the info came from — e.g. "Confirmed with Aunt Priya".
  5. Click Submit for review.
The bio won't change immediately. An admin reviews it first. Once approved, it appears on the profile and a History entry records the change.
How do I add or change a profile photo?

Profile photos appear on each member's profile and on their card in the Members tab.

  1. Open the member's profile.
  2. Click Suggest photo (or the camera icon next to their avatar).
  3. Choose a photo from your device — JPG, PNG, or HEIC all work.
  4. Add a short reason and submit.

Same rule as everything else: goes to the admin first, appears on the profile once approved.

How do I share a story?

Stories are short remembrances or memories — anything you'd like recorded alongside someone's profile. They appear in the Stories tab and on the member's profile.

  1. Open the member's profile.
  2. Click Add story.
  3. Type your memory. No length limit, but a few paragraphs is the sweet spot.
  4. Submit for review.

Once approved, your story is permanently added to that member's record.

How do I share a video?

The Videos tab holds short clips: speeches, blessings, songs, birthday messages — anything you'd like preserved in motion.

  1. Open the Videos tab from the top navigation.
  2. Click Add a video in the top right.
  3. Choose a video file from your device. MP4 or MOV works best.
  4. Pick a thumbnail — three frames are suggested from the video automatically, or upload your own.
  5. Add an optional caption (e.g. "Aji's blessing on Diwali, 2024") and tag any family members who appear in the video.
  6. Click Submit for approval.
Limits: 10 minutes maximum, 500 MB maximum file size. The site will tell you up front if your video is too long or too large so you don't waste an upload.
After you submit, your video is visible only to you and admins until approved. Once an admin approves it, it appears in the Videos tab for everyone in the family.
How do I add a new family member?

If someone is missing from the tree — a newborn, a spouse, an uncle we never recorded — you can submit them.

  1. Find an existing relative they connect to (parent, sibling, or spouse) and open that relative's profile.
  2. Click + Add a relative in the profile actions.
  3. Fill in their full name, plus anything you know — date of birth, location, a short bio.
  4. Submit for review.
Not sure which existing relative to start from? Pick the closest one you know — the admin sorts out precise linking during review.
How do I link a new member to relatives?

When you submit a new member, the form asks you to specify:

  • Father — pick from existing members, or type the name if they're not yet in the tree.
  • Mother — same.
  • Spouse — link to a spouse so they appear connected on the tree.

If a parent or spouse isn't in the tree at all, mention them in the reason field — the admin can add them separately and link them properly during approval.

Don't worry about getting links perfectly right. The admin reviews every new member and adjusts links during approval so the tree stays consistent.
How do I edit location or contact details?

All edits use the same Suggest edit form:

  1. Open the member's profile.
  2. Click Suggest edit.
  3. You'll see fields for Bio, Location, and Contact — change any or all.
  4. Leave the fields you don't want to change as they are.
  5. Add a reason and submit.

The admin can approve all changes together, or approve some and reject others.

How do I change ancestral links (parent or spouse)?

Fixing parent or spouse links works through the same review process, but it's more sensitive because it can affect siblings and descendants too.

  1. Open the profile of the member whose links need fixing.
  2. Click Suggest edit.
  3. In the reason field, clearly state what should change. Example: "Mother should be Lakshmi Naidoo, not Saraswati Naidoo — confirmed with her son."
  4. Submit for review.
Be ready for a follow-up. Because ancestral changes can ripple through the tree, admin will often confirm the change with you or a senior family member before approving.

Approvals & history

How does the approval process work?

Every change — bio edits, photos, stories, new members, link changes — goes into the admin queue. Here's the flow:

  1. You submit a request from a profile page.
  2. It's added to the admin queue with your name, the change, and your reason.
  3. An admin reviews it, then either approves (the change goes live and is recorded in History) or rejects it (with a reason).
  4. You'll see the outcome the next time you open the Latest updates tab.

Most requests are reviewed within a few days. If yours has been sitting a long time, mention it to an admin.

Why might my change be rejected?

Admins reject changes when they can't verify the information or when something looks off. Common reasons:

  • No source given. If the reason field is empty or vague, the admin has no way to check.
  • Conflicts with existing records. Different info already on file — admin will pause to reconcile.
  • Ancestral links don't match other relatives. Changing a mother also affects siblings; admin holds off if the change creates inconsistencies.
  • Sensitive personal info. Contact details and locations for living members are reviewed carefully for privacy.
  • Duplicate. The change is already pending or was just made by someone else.

If your change is rejected, you'll see the admin's reason in the Latest updates tab. You can resubmit with more context.

How do I see what's changed and when?

The Latest updates tab shows a timeline of every approved (and rejected) change, grouped by day. Each entry shows:

  • What changed (bio, photo, story, new member, link)
  • Who submitted it
  • Who approved or rejected it
  • When the decision was made

Use it to follow up on your own pending requests or track recent additions to the tree.

Why is my change still pending?

Pending means an admin hasn't reviewed it yet. This is normal — most changes wait at least a day, sometimes several.

If it's been more than a week:

  • Check you're signed in to the right account — requests are tied to whoever submitted them.
  • Make sure your reason field is informative. Vague requests go to the back of the queue.
  • Reach out to an admin directly — they may have questions.
A pending request never expires. Even after months, an admin can still approve or reject it — it's just waiting.

Account

How do I update my account or sign out?

Click your name in the top-right corner. A small menu appears with:

  • My profile — view your account and the family member you're linked to.
  • Take the tour — the same guided walkthrough as on this page.
  • Sign out — logs you out and returns to the sign-in page.

To change your email or other account details, contact an admin — those aren't editable from inside the app yet.

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